Parents must be models for loving. Children can love only to the degree they have been loved. Children who are loved find it easy to love their parents, siblings, playmates and teachers, for they have seen love at its best. To love children means to accept them as they are, regardless of good points or faults. This kind of love gives children strength and security.

Parents remain the most important influence on a child's life. So, as educators and as parents let us join hands and work together for the betterment of our children.

Even though most parents are busy working, we want them to feel welcome at Butterflies. We encourage the parent's participation and involvement to facilitate the learning process. We give a lot of importance to each parent's role and emphasize their vital role in their child's teaching.

To help us provide the best possible child care, please feel free to communicate any needs, wants or concerns regarding your child. It is only through parent/teacher continuous communication that a goal of quality, nurturing care can be achieved.

BUTTERFLIES PARENTS' INFORMATION

PREPARING YOUR CHILD FOR PRE-SCHOOL The most important thing that a parent can do when preparing a child for pre-school is to talk with the child about the school a few weeks in advance. Many times pre-school children can visit their future classrooms and meet the teacher before their first day of school. This is important for a child as they will not be left with a strange face or in a strange place on their first day of school. Many pre-school children are comforted when they are allowed to bring a small object from home. This object can be a favourite blanket, stuffed animal, or even a picture of his or her parents. Pre-school teachers are aware of the importance of these comfort objects and are more than willing to let a child hang on to it throughout the day.

HOW TO SAY GOODBYE!
Be aware that children from about 12 months to three years of age are prey to a whole host of brand new fears that may make them unwilling to let you out of their sight. This is perfectly normal. Helping your child get past their fears will go a long way toward encouraging healthy separations.
Do not sneak away from your child without telling him or her good-bye. If a child is pre-occupied with a toy or activity and turns to find that their parent is gone, this will only make him or her clingier the following day. Give children a proper good-bye and do not ever let them see if you are sad about leaving.
A child who learns to balance exploration and personal safety is well on the way to feeling independent, competent and safe. Some tips for parents:

• DON'T apologize for leaving. It conveys the messages that you are doing something for which you want your child's forgiveness.
• DO treat departures in a matter-of-fact way. Say, "I love you and I'll see you after class." Give them a hug and kiss and leave. It sends them the message that you feel comfortable with his new environment
• DON'T ask your child's permission to depart. It gives your child more power than he or she needs or can comfortably use.
• DO say goodbye instead of slipping away. Pulling a disappearing act may help avoid a scene today but will jeopardize your child's trust in you, and that will set the stage for more difficult goodbyes in the future.
• DO try to be patient if your child acts out when you are reunited. The longer you are gone, the harder it is for him or her to keep themselves together. Reunited with you, they feel safe enough to let out a day's worth of emotions all at once. Acknowledge their feelings and tell them how much they were missed.

BIRTHDAY CELEBRATIONS

If you wish your child to celebrate their special day within the Nursery, then a little forward planning is required! We can organize the birthday party and make it a memorable event for your child! But please do let us know in advance.

MISCELLANEOUS

Please ensure that your ward reaches the nursery on time i.e., 8:30 A.M. The reason being that if they are late, they will miss out on our free play session which the children really enjoy. Also, late comers are cranky and can be irritated and will settling down will take some time.

Children should attend the nursery regularly. Irregularity can lead to indiscipline in the long run. So parents please co-operate and send your wards regularly to the nursery. Please note that children who remain absent in between take a longer time to settle in.

Please note that parents can visit the nursery between 8 - 9 in the morning and 12:00 - 12:30 at noon to enquire about their child's progress. This is for the smooth functioning of the nursery and to ensure that your wards are not disturbed in their class during activity sessions.

Please send two complete extra sets of clean clothes that are clearly labelled with your child's name (will be retained in the nursery and sent home for washing only).

Please send a plate, glass, spoon and fork (all plastic). Kindly label.

Napkins, towels and an extra set of dress (in the bag) is a must
Enough healthy food for one mid - morning snack and lunch (incase of Daycare students.)

Please do not send sweets, chocolates, nuts or carbonated drinks with your child. One or two tetra pack juice or milk may also be provided but please do not send water as it is available here.

If required, please supply your child with a small packet of pampers.

Please ensure that the nails of your ward are trimmed weekly as long nails are unhygienic and also to avoid scratching themselves and others.